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February 24, 2012

The Strangers We Meet

Throughout our walks — whether for work or pleasure — we run into a lot of different people. By different I don’t just mean a variety. Sure, there are the postal carriers and the UPS drivers (and Fed-Ex and a variety of others); there’s the cab driver who must have a drop off every day around noon and the fire fighters at the corner fire station washing their truck or zooming out of the firehouse. There’s the clerk who walks to her shift at the grocery store and neighbors who are out on their own walks with their own dogs. Yes, these are all very interesting people I get to see just about every day, but they aren’t the interesting ones I’m talking about.

For instance I’m talking about the Frisbee Man. I call him this because on really windy days (and sometimes on days not so windy) he is down at the big field with his grocery cart and his three layers of coats testing the direction of the wind with his moistened finger. He stands at one end of the field and flings one Frisbee after the other as far as he can across the wide expanse (the same wide expanse I like to run over!). The more he flings, the more he disrobes until eventually he’s down to an old ragged t-shirt and some very saggy jeans.

And yes, if you’ve figured out the math he has at least 30 Frisbees (all different colors) in his grocery cart along with more clothes, some interesting “gadgets” (for lack of a better term), and some grocery bags of “stuff” that could just as well be food as it could be stuffed animals. Hard to tell because I never get too close to the Frisbee Man.

Not that I’m rude to him, but Gretchen knows that if I show an interest it won’t be in the man — it will be in his Frisbees and particularly, in chasing them. “Sorry buddy,” she says to me, “He doesn’t need any tooth marks in his beautiful Frisbees.”

But some days we stop and watch him because this guy is pretty darn amazing. On a good day, he can throw a Frisbee a good 200 yards — way across the field — and often we see him not only throw them one after the other after the other, but one right on top of the other…as in landing within a few inches of the ones he threw before it.

I always thought that, to get a good throw in, you’d want the wind to be at your back, but Frisbee Man has taught me otherwise. He throws into the wind and his angle is so amazing, that Frisbee flies a short distance and then launches up and travels farther than I’ve ever expected to.

And he throws the Frisbees for hours. Some days we might pass him three or four times, which can mean that he’s been throwing for about 3 hours.

Impressive.

And Frisbee Man is a very nice fellow. He says hello to us every time we pass and every time we pass we comment on the wind or the last throw or his remarkable aim or the weather and he cordially replies always ending his comments with, “Have a glorious day!”

There’s the Shy Guy (as I like to call him) who lives, we think, in the park somewhere. He didn’t say hello to us at first, just tucked his baseball-capped head into his coat collar, stuffed his hands in his pockets and moved down the path. But one day Gretchen was taking a photograph of us (not sure who was all there) and the Shy Guy lifted his chin from his coat, stopped about 50 feet from us, and smiled.

From that moment on, he waves at us now and his smile is as beautiful as the sun on a winter’s day. I don’t think he speaks English, but maybe one day I can teach him some canine.

There’s the Nervous Lady too. She hangs out at various street corners waiting for some nefarious activity, but she always comments when we pass by. “That’s some beautiful dogs you got there,” she said just the other day while Monty and Roux and I were walking by. “Yes, ma’am, some super-duper beauts!”

It kind of makes me laugh because she’s seen us hundreds of times and every time she says the same things. I don’t mind. I really like the way she says “beauts!”

There’s also the Tall Man who for months never gave us the time of day, but one day, instead of just saying “hello” Gretchen said, “Hope you’re staying warm, it’s cold out today!”

It was as if the flood gates of conversation opened for him. He started talking and I just stood there looking up at him (he’s about 6 feet 5 inches tall) and listening as he prattled on about topics I couldn’t really understand. Now every time we see him, he waves his long-fingered hand and lets us know the current weather report, the state of political affairs, and who we might meet up ahead on the path.

I also really like the Walking Lady. We put in a lot of miles – some days more than others — but the Walking Lady has us beat hands down (or maybe that’s feet down!). She’s up on the hill or over by the park or down by the lake and then an hour later we’ll see her on the other hill, at the other park, or coming back from the lake. She’ll greet us on the long flight of stairs up the to ridge or in the tunnel on the way to the lake or sometimes we’ll see her marching her way through a neighborhood miles away from where we normally see her. She’s truly an inspiration!

I really like my job as a dog dog walker, not just because I get to hang out with some swell dogs, but also because I get to meet (and greet) some really interesting folks who’ve given me a whole new perspective on humanity. Walking for work gives me a chance to check in on the neighborhood, the regulars (the UPS guy, the mail carriers, etc.), and the interesting characters who most people don’t take the time to stop and meet.

Next time you see one of them, say hello from me, okay?

Rubin

 

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February 17, 2012

Less is More

As a teacher, Gretchen heard the phrase (and believed in it wholeheartedly) that “less is more.” She thought, mistakenly, that this was educational lingo referring to the fact that sometimes educators try to cram way too much into kids’ heads instead of helping them figure it out for themselves.

But recently, she attended the Tallgrass Acupressure Institute’s hands-on course — Introduction to Acupressure — and lo and behold, what’s the phrase she heard again and again? Yep, less is more.

Only in this course it wasn’t about how much is crammed into the students’ heads (Gretchen says that A LOT was crammed into her head and she’s still trying to sort it out!), but rather the way a practitioner approaches a treatment, specifically the way a practitioner touches a dog.

As a massage therapist, Gretchen realized her touch is more not less and so transitioning to the less for acupressure was a challenge. A good challenge, but a challenge nonetheless.

When she told me all of this, I started to think about the phrase in my own life. I, as you may have suspected, am a “more” kind of guy especially when it comes to certain things. For instance, MORE play time is always better than less and MORE time with friends is preferable.

But when I thought more deeply about it, there are somethings where I prefer “less.” Like sometimes I don’t want to eat. This is frustrating for my parents and for those who take care of me, and I can’t really explain why I am this way, but there are occasions (apparently more than my other canine friends) when less food is just fine with me.

Less rain, too. I could do with less rain in the month of February especially and while you think that means I want more sun (which sometimes I do), this is not always the case. Sometimes I just don’t want there to be rain. Whatever the “more” that needs to take its place is fine with me (snow, dry gray, or sun).

Less cats. I suppose this should read as “fewer” cats, but it’s not that I want to reduce their numbers, I just want less of them in my life. They drive me crazy. Perhaps if I was allowed to chase them my opinion would shift to more from less.

But overall, I’m about MORE — more walks, more play, more cuddling, more time on the couch, more friends, more adventures, more swimming, more snow, more family, more treats… more, more, more.

Still, Gretchen has been practicing what she learned on me and I have to admit that less can sometimes be beneficial. While I love my massages and want as many of them as I can get, I’m learning to appreciate the delicate and yet powerful touch of acupressure.

Of course, now I want MORE of the LESS which is kind of funny when you think about it.

Oh yeah, and I want more laughter. That’s always a good more to have in one’s life.

My friends/clients are also about more, I think, but to make certain I asked them and here’s what they said:

Rosie: “More = Abundance and Abundance means I get everything I want when I want it because it’s my job to provide MORE silliness in your life and less focus on those serious things like work and errands.”

Tyson: “I hate to ask for more. I really don’t want to impose. Wait. Is that a cookie you’re holding out for me? No really, I don’t want to be a burden. Less, less, less…wait, are you offering me the cookie? More more more!!! Sorry. Please. Is that okay?”

Monty: “What’s less? Explain.”

Roux: “Bark Bark Bark = More More More = Big Smiles, Tail Wags, and as much fun as I can possibly cram into every minute of every day. Whew. I’m tired!”

Quillette: “Well, I must say, youthful exuberance is all about more. I, my dears, find that less is substantial. Balance, little ones, balance. Seek it. Feel it. Be filled with it. And when you have a moment, could you scratch my bum and massage my belly?”

Woobie: “More did me in! My broken toe is a testament, but I think it’s finally healing so now I”m learning to walk the thin line between less and more. It’s a very thin line, let me tell you and at times my body is bursting with the desire for more, more, more. Oy!”

As you can see, we all have our opinions. Perhaps it’s best to say may your days be filled with the more you need and the less you desire.

Until next week,

Rubin

 

 

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February 13, 2012

Mud and Dust

What is the difference between this place…

…and this?

Yes, there are many differences, but for a dog the difference can be summed up in mud and dust.

The past week has been an interesting mix of business, learning, and pleasure. I think I got the best end of the pleasure deal getting to stay with my friend, Paige while my moms traveled to Phoenix so Gretchen could take a class from the Tallgrass Acupressure Institute and Ann could visit her sister, Debbie.

Students and instructors (and dogs) after their Tallgrass Acupressure class in Phoenix.

We got a short week’s worth of walks in last week and then off I went for a sleepover at Paige’s house and yes, my stay, while immensely enjoyable, was filled with rain and  MUD! Gretchen’s, on the other hand, was filled with sun and DUST.

When she came home last night we compared notes.

“I think I’d like the dust and sun more,” I stated matter of factly though I must admit I had a blast playing in the mud and rain with Paige (I just didn’t like the bath afterwards!).

“Oh,” Gretchen said, “Give me the mud and rain any day.”

Apparently, the dry weather (which wasn’t unbearably hot since it’s winter there, but still 75 degrees at noon) makes Gretchen’s curls disappear and her nose bleed.

“And there are no natural landmarks,” she complained. Pressed further she said that she needs water to get her bearings. “I always know where I am here in the Northwest because the water is around me and I can navigate north to south, east to west by know which bodies of water are where.”

In Phoenix they have what they call mountains, but apparently they weren’t much help.

“Everything is brown in Phoenix,” Gretchen explained. “Brown dirt, brown mountains, brown houses…brown, brown, brown. I missed the green and the blue and white-capped mountains all around me.”

And she missed me and all her dog walking and swim clients. “Yes,” she said, “I got to meet some cool dogs and learn some amazing information, but I was sure happy when we landed in Seattle to rain and cooler temperatures.”

I had to laugh. Most people think the rain of Seattle is miserable and there are days when we always wish for drier climes and a bit more blue sky with warm sun, but apparently Gretchen would rather have the climate we have — mud and rain — than the one Phoenix has — heat and dust.

I think I’m torn. I was born in the high desert and there is some beauty to be found there. But today, when we set out on our walk with Rosie and Tyson, I was happy for the mud between my toes and the smell of rain on the wind.

Still, when I see the photos of Phoenix and hear about the great time Gretchen had with family and new friends (students and instructors), I wish I could have made the trip. I wanted to meet my cousins and set foot on warm dirt if even for a short time.

Cousin Harley

Cousin Rover

But I had a great time with Paige and Auntie Sheila. And now it’s great to be back home with my pack and back to work in the mud and rain. Yep, my heart belongs here!

More later!

Rubin

 

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February 3, 2012

Creature of Habit

Hey Gretchen?

Yep, Rubin.

What exactly is meant by the phrase, “a creature of habit?”

Well, it means that the “creature” — whoever that may be — likes routine and isn’t very fond of a change in their lives. Why do you ask?

I think this might describe me.

You think?

Why are you smiling like that?

I guess I’m just surprised that you figured this out now.

You mean you aren’t surprised?

Can’t say that I am because you are, in fact, very much a creature of habit.

Is that a bad thing?

Absolutely not! It’s just the way you are and I guess it doesn’t bother me because I’m kind of the same way.

Do you think others find it bothersome?

I suppose, but then everything everyone does bothers someone somewhere.

Well, I don’t really care about everyone everywhere. I’m concerned that my people/friends find it annoying. Is it annoying?

What “habits” do you think others might find annoying?

Hmmm, let me see. I don’t like to eat breakfast and would prefer my first meal of the day served after 11 in the morning. Is that annoying?

Not annoying so much as frustrating because sometimes our days are busy and stopping mid-morning to get you to eat can make the day feel rushed.

See, these are the reasons I think it’s important that we talk about this stuff.

Will it change the time you are willing to eat breakfast?

No, but it’s good to know that you feel this way.

Now who is wearing the wry smile?

Are there other things that I need to know about my habits?

Let’s see…I’ve got a question for you. Why is it that when it’s time for bed you always look at the human bed longingly and then, when we invite you up, you won’t come up unless there is an immense amount of coaxing?

I don’t know if you really want the answer to this.

Why not?

I do that because I like to see the two of you do all that gyrating to get me up on the bed. It’s kind of like the last joke of the day and it makes me laugh every time!

So it’s not habit? It’s humor?

Let’s just say that it’s a little bit of both. You have to admit it’s pretty funny.

Actually, I don’t have to admit that and I won’t.

Anything else you need to share about my habits?

Let me make a list…

A list?

Yep, a list.

Rubin’s Top Ten Habits (some annoying, others not):

1. The need to bark in the backyard…sometimes at something (like a squirrel or a opossum) and sometimes at nothing (the “I see dead people” syndrome)

2. The need for daily off-leash time; no off-leash time = Mr. Grumpy

3. The morning routine — wake up, outside break, inside to the warmest spot on the couch, morning nap, then a big stretch.

4. Barking at the two dogs in the neighborhood that you don’t like.

5. Running to hide when your raincoat and/or booties are even a possibility of being removed from the closet and getting anywhere near you.

6. Needing at least 3 hours of exercise each day before you decide you are sort of tired.

7. Sitting in the back of the car looking out the back window so that the drivers behind us point and smile at the “cute dog” in the window.

8. Staring at me whenever I put my hand/hands in my pocket(s).

9. Needing the blanket on the couch to be spread out over the ottoman so you have a tent to sleep under while we read or watch a movie.

10. The way you have me twisted around your paw so that I always add a sprinkle of something extra (cheese, ham, chicken, treats) in your food bowl before you even think about eating!

So what’s the difference between a habit and a personality trait?

Good question. I think the difference is how you react if any of the above don’t happen. If it were a personality trait, you’d handle it better realizing that things like having cheese put on your food isn’t necessary, but because you’ve done it over and over and over again, it’s now a habit that you can’t overlook…nor can I.

Are you suggesting that a habit is one I shape and form and a personality trait isn’t under my control?

Perhaps. All I know is that if certain things don’t happen, you get a bit flustered and when you get flustered, everyone’s day is kind of thrown off.

That sounds more like a personality trait than a habit.

You know, I think you are right, but maybe it’s that your overarching personality trait is that you are a creature of habit — one is nested into the other.

Like those Russian Dolls you have in the front room?

Precisely. You like routine, Rubin. There’s no doubt about it and frankly, I get that because I am the same way. If things change too much, I can stress out a bit and I have to stop and remind myself that the routines aren’t too far away…I just need to find my way back to them.

I understand that completely!

But why do you ask me about all of this?

Well, you have to admit that our routine has been kind of whacky lately and I’ve been feeling the stress of it.

Me, too. But I think things are going to level off here so hang in there, okay? I mean, this past week has been relatively normal, right?

Yes. I’ve gotten to see all my dog walking clients and even though Woobie stayed with us for a few days and Paige came over for a birthday party, it felt a little closer to a normal routine.

Good. Let’s work on keeping it that way in the weeks to come, okay?

Okay! Thanks for helping me work through this, Gretchen.

You bet, buddy. Anything else you want to talk about?

Well, it’s sunny outside today. Any chance we can go run off leash without my raincoat or booties after I bark at the squirrel on the backyard fence and bare my teeth at those dogs I don’t like in the neighborhood and then you can give me some cheese?

Aren’t you the joker!

Forever and always!

Rubin

 

 

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